Lesson Learned
Wednesday, January 16th, 2008Recently one of our sons, Chad, started classes at Columbia University. Although Chad was extremely excited about returning to school he was also very apprehensive. The reason for his anxiety was the fact he was a freshman at the age of 25.
You see Chad is a Former Marine and a Veteran of the Iraq War. He was but one of the thousands of Marines that were the first to go into Iraq during the invasion. Chad was fresh out of Salem High when he went to Boot Camp in 2002. He was still in high school when he enlisted after 9/11.
Now as he struggles to adapt to “Civilian” life he wants to finish his education. For that I as a mother am both thankful and proud. He hopes to one day join me selling Columbia real estate and I do indeed look forward to that day.
In addition to Chad’s anxiety about his age as a college freshman he admittedly has a few cobwebs in the “grey matter” area. He came over to the house to discuss these concerns with his father and myself. His father told him to grab a tablet and he did. His father then said “I never was very good at math but I was lucky enough to learn the formula for success.” On the paper my husband scribbled the following formula: W x (K+S+A) = X. He then said “this formula applies to anything you do including school. Any trade, any business.”
My husband then explained the formula:
W = Work Ethic
K = Knowledge
S = Skill
A = Ambition
X = Success
Each of us needs to rate ourselves in my husbands formula. Use any figure you wish for the first 4 parts ie 0 -10 or 0 -100. It matters not how high you rank on “K”, “S” or “A”. If you rank 0 on “W” the answer to “X” is 0.
The reason I share this little private story with you is that not only did it help Chad overcome his anxiety after only one day in college the young man learned two valuable lessons….. The formula for success and that Dad is much smarter that he ever imagined.
~Rhonda McMillan
Broker
“It was great fun and I am proud to have been a part” reported All Pro’s Vice President Brandon Parker. Brandon led the way for “Team All Pro with his VERY pregnant wife Katarina and 9 year old daughter Autumn.
“It was a blast to say the least and made even better by being for such a great cause” stated All Pro Realty Team Leader and Broker Rhonda McMillan who was last seen being shadowed by a beautiful red headed butterfly (her Grand Daughter – BreAnne).
